tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8574569577771615103.post6544096266293222736..comments2023-10-21T03:42:48.149-04:00Comments on He Who Laughs Last Didn't Get It: Gone in the blink of an eyeJuliehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09939072276782132013noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8574569577771615103.post-27333661973989981582010-08-05T08:54:28.893-04:002010-08-05T08:54:28.893-04:00I love your honesty when you write. And, no, I wou...I love your honesty when you write. And, no, I wouldn't think it was wrong at all to still call them nieces/nephews ... you will always be their aunt! :)SoMo Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06443375134383523506noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8574569577771615103.post-37874765937639337602010-08-05T01:41:07.789-04:002010-08-05T01:41:07.789-04:00That's so hard. I still think of my niece &am...That's so hard. I still think of my niece & nephew from my ex as my niece and nephew; I love those kids. If his mom were still alive, I am certain I would have a relationship with her. We were close.<br />I was so lucky, blessed actually, to have met my current husband just a year after X and I separated. It made it so much easier to get over the past and realize it all happened to get me where I am now.<br />I wish you the best, I know it's rough.<br />xoxoCyndy Bushhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12617354883122757511noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8574569577771615103.post-78288701971073383692010-08-04T23:32:12.637-04:002010-08-04T23:32:12.637-04:00Well shit. I have some family drama that sounds si...Well shit. I have some family drama that sounds similar - only my 'ex' is my sister and it's awful. Not the same, I know. But I also know that feeling of wanting to run.MommaKisshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09443553798728370645noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8574569577771615103.post-79110747130050846612010-08-04T20:44:16.356-04:002010-08-04T20:44:16.356-04:00Today was my ex's aunts funeral. I didn't...Today was my ex's aunts funeral. I didn't go out of respect to him because he didn't want me and this new woman there. <br /><br />I've found someone wonderful and moved on...I am in love and happy and provided for and taken care of...but...I too wonder what it would be like and how I would react if my ex came back with flowers and sincere apology. <br /><br />((((HUGS)))) It's only been a few months for me...not even a year yet...I can't imagine what you are going through.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00422648347443986000noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8574569577771615103.post-38923311928037317412010-08-04T19:07:07.941-04:002010-08-04T19:07:07.941-04:00Sounds to me like you had the upper hand here!! I...Sounds to me like you had the upper hand here!! If you caught him looking at you a few times, you've rattled his cage just a bit!! So don't be gettin' down on your situation!! You've shown him just how strong you are! And no, you don't "have to be a little hurt". Remember that feeling hurt is a choice you make. Julie, this is a huge victory in your life! His mother still loves you and that just puts him a little on edge! YOU GO, GIRL!!!!!Peggy Khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11931080361170776356noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8574569577771615103.post-2589018553060245782010-08-04T17:22:33.988-04:002010-08-04T17:22:33.988-04:00You are still a beautiful family--you, Hamilton an...You are still a beautiful family--you, Hamilton and Gibson (whose names I love by the way!)!! I think you showed more pose than your Ex. Would he ever come to your parent's home? <br /><br />So what he didn't talk to you! Just look at what he is missing out on, not you! You are living a beautiful life with your beautiful, no handsome, sons!! He made a decision he will have to explain to those boys one day, not you!<br /><br />In a blink of an eye, you are watching his beautiful life disappear as yours grows every day!! God Bless you for being a strong mother and daughter-in-law...<br /><br />Come visit when you can...<br /><br />www.frugaltractormom.blogspot.comTractor Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12313757434279815872noreply@blogger.com